Tuesday, November 27, 2012

I am no Superwoman

Asalamualaikum...
I am no Superwoman.....
Errk....actually the title was the only line I had written and.... I accidentally pressed publish and whoops! it was sent out.. tho I had deleted it from my PC but it's still there in the blogs that link to mine.. and it had been without any additional information or content..sorry!
Until...my sister called asking what had happened to my entry.. thinking that something was wrong to her PC. Anyway here I am, ready to continue what was left out....

Superwoman.. Yes, I had tried to be one but ternyata lah I am an ordinary woman with an ordinary strength. Cannot be more aggressive at this age or I will be landed on bed with back pain or KO.
Of course I don't want that to happen.. I only need to relax and do my chores slowly without pressuring myself. I do not want to be what I cannot be... Remember, everything has a limit.

 Bruschetta for dinner, yesterday
Imagine, if you can do all the work by yourself without feeling tired/sick macam Superwoman ..alang kah senang bila tengok every corner in your house cleaned and all task done...happiness kann!

 Chicken Rice for lunch on Sunday
I have my weekly maid comes to the house and a Bangladeshi to attend to my garden. Gosh! nothing pleases me most when those two helpers had done a good job. When the house is clean especially the kitchen, it inspires me so much to be cooking good food to the family.


Things had changed and I know I cannot handle it all by myself...without a helper. No need to stress myself day and night cleaning with a mood like nak makan orang...All I need is to tell myself, I am no SuperWoman but a normal housewife with a big heart. Hb always remind me, do not get stress or worry of what I cannot do..close one eye and let it be.. What do I do without him...but to thank Hb dearest for being very understanding and not demanding.
At this age we should be more relax and take things easy. We have done our best bringing up our kids and now they're all grown up and independent...enjoy what's left for the two of us...*sigh*
Wanting to be a Superwoman is stressful dohh..so better NOT.

Now, our area has plenty of eating places to choose. This is one of the cafe that served Portugese food. Tasty and what we had was set lunch and the price is reasonable too. So, memang tak ada hal kalau tak masak, we only have to choose mana nak menjamu selera.
Tapi mesti ingat, eating in moderation!

Chocolate Expresso and Cheese Brownies for tea on Sunday..
 
Chocolate Expresso and Cheese Brownie 

Likewise, food is not a problem.. I love cooking and will always prepare simple food..and once a while malas nak makan keluar.. just order from the nearest Cafe... dial the number, then picked it up a few minutes later. But, I know my family enjoyed the simple food that I prepared lately or maybe at all time...*wink*

Meehoon Curry...Saturday lunch

Only time when I wish to do the elaborate kind of cooking/baking that's the time...  I wish I could be a Superwoman... I could do wonders to my cooking and could do almost everything that I dream to make!! As I said, cooking is not the problem but the mess from the cooking...sob sob tak sanggup!

Sandwiches for dinner, Saturday.

Bengka durian..it tasted more like Durian Pudding,
soft and yummy

This is definitely my family's favorite food, Salad with Pasta and beef Salami,
Mashed Potato and fried Salmon...all in one plate

Lately, I am running out of space uploading pictures in my blog..according to what it says here...my Picasa Web album is full. What do I do next?? If anyone happen to have the same problem..please let me know what other ways we could do besides deleting pictures from the Picasa Web.
I rambled too much about house duties or wanting to be Superwoman, huh. This entry has more pictures to share...

Last Saturday.. Wedding at Kak Shidah's house.
Ya, if you can remember my friend Shidah who is good in organizing functions. And this was the second wedding in this year..this time was her eldest son's wedding. Still, thumbs up to my dear friend.. tho compared to the second daughter's Do the last six months ago was very grand and breathtaking to me. But this one was more homey and relax as it was done at the play ground that is a few meters away to her house.
I went with Hb and my daughter. Like always we would choose to be around close friends and relatives in one table..







Door gift

Adios for now, till the next entry..insyallah!
By the way, I hope to hear and understand more about Picasa Web..

37 comments:

  1. Salam sis Iha, seperti selalu... dimajlis sis Iha tampak berseri lagi anggun begitu juga dengannya Fifa cantik rupawan...

    Hmmmm... cheese brownie, yummy ! gimanapun, Ratna setuju dengan pandangan dari sis Iha yaitu untuk sekali harong menjadi superwoman bagi Ratna ianya terlalu mendesak tenaga, jadinya perlakukan kerjaan dirumah setimpal dengan kemampuan memasing... seperti sebagai contoh disini Peranchis sudah dimaklumi banyak para suri yang terlalu mengerah tenaga mereka agar segalanya bersih dan berkilat bagai disagat dengan sepenuh tenaga dan kesudahannya mereka itu menjadi pelupa karena kerjaan yang sama dan berulang-ulang tanpa diselangselikan dengan kerjaan yang bernama keindahan bagi menyamankan rasa perasaan... teruskan apa sahaja yang sis Iha amalkan selama ini dimana menyelenggarakan gerak harian dengan bijaksananya... maka itu sis Iha tampak awet muda, anggun dan berseri-seri...


    Salam manis semanis madu.

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  2. Wkmslm Ratna..
    Alahai, alang kah sukanya bila Ratna masih membalas comment.
    Tiap2 kali bila nak ke majlis, harus lah bersiap kemas ala ala Perempuan melayu terakhir gitu..hehe.
    Sajian selalunya yang memgikut atas kemampuan saja Ratna..cuma nampak meriah disebabkan presentation nya mungkin. Kerja rumah pun begitu..larat buat tak larat tinggalkan..tidak lah sampai berkilat dapurnya. Huih..keserdahaan itu penting..tambah pula umur kian tua.

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  3. Salam sis (boleh ya panggil sis?)

    saya pun, bila dah tak larat, main pejam mata sebelah jer...taknak paksa2 diri, nanti yg sakit diri sendiri jugak...kita makin lama makin kurang kudrat, jadi kerja apalagi tanpa pembantu mmg tak perlu stress, janji kerja siap dan semua pihak terlibat happy, cukup.

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  4. Wkmslm Queenie..
    Panggil laa apa pun..darling pun boleh heehee.
    Mula2 perasaan macam tak menentu nak kan rumah tip top..tapi after some time hmm tak kesah laa..rumah kita kann. Asalkan makan minum utk suami terjaga,..anak2 dah besar. Thnk you Q kerana menjenguk.

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  5. Assalam Iha
    Profile pic dah bertukar meh? Why may I ask? cewah..

    Apa juga yg you nak cakap, I tetap nak kata you are one of the superwomen yg pernah I 'temui' dialam maya (dua lagi ialah Ratna & Queenie).

    I still think kerja rumah patut dikongsi bersama ahli2 keluarga yg lain. Cara begitu boleh mempastikan MOTH (kita2 ler) tetap anggun, muda dan jelita selamanya, auwww...

    p/s: Madam of The House

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  6. Wkmslm CS..
    Huh, mula2 tukar sebab terdelete yang lama..kan ada problem with the picasa web.
    Now that I have got feed back from Mamatiamia.. boleh laa di ngomen PC ini nanti.

    Oh ya..I memang berkongsi kerja with the kids..like lipat baju and what not..
    tetapi tak mengemas tu dia kureng sikit pandai. Wah, mesti you nampak muda jelita ya kerana suka mengikut petua. I pulak dah lembik you!!

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  7. Iha
    Oleh kerana my anak2 tak berkongsi buat kerja rumah maka I sekarang dah jadi sayur lodeh yg asyik diperangatkan, lembik lotek jadinya daaah, hahaha..

    Maknanya 'petua' yg I suggest tu mmg tak applicable to me, huwaaaaa....

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  8. Hee haa dear
    Memang kelass wedding anak ur friend...cantikk habis! Boleh ke kita buat gitu when it comes to our turn?

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  9. Hi Sis..
    My friend tu bukan saja pandai tentang wedding tapi dia ada AJK yang sangat
    berkerjasama..untung tau.
    I entah la..you maybe boleh buat macam tu kot.

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